Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Day 33 - confinement

Baru perasan ade blog, was thinking to create the new one. But i think i might stick to this blog cuz it bring back those memories (yang i sendiri dh lupa hehe). Yeah after almost 1 year (since the last post), a lot of things i went through some were good and put a smile on my face, some not so good and put a tear in my eyes.. but hey that's life ;)
As today mark my 33rd day of my confinement, i would like to share with my dear blog that im a proud mother of 2 my lil precious. Princess Haifaa Nur Humayrah and Prince Muhammad Rizq Hussein.
Rizq was born on 22nd Jan 2011 at Pantai Medical Hospital Bangsar. It was an easy delivery alhamdulillah, took only 2 hours and 30 min in the labor room. The baby weight 3.83kg!. The baby was in a breech position, but Doc Idris did a good job and i went on a normal delivery subhanallah. I would like to share on the journey and experience during my confinement but i think am not ready yet. Not because it was all bad NO! but kinda 'malas' nak type as for now. :p
All i can say that saya berpantang sendiri di shah alam woohoo feel like superwoman ok boley jaga dua org anak and masak sendiri!
Shall continue later sbb nak vacuum lantai kejap, haifaa yang sgt helpfull tuang bedak adik dia atas lantai..(MAID bile nak sampai nieeeeee)

Monday, April 5, 2010

Focal point?

I just browse through inspire blog of mine - anything to do with decorating and creative ideas. Yes i need something to boost up my ideas.
I just knew 'focal point' is what we need the most especially for living hall. It can be a nice big mirror, telly or antique coffee table. Only after that the idea will come together with sofa arrangement and lightings.
Baru jer fikir nak letak chandelier or decorative lights but i think i should no rush to there yet. as we can play with it later on.

Home sweet home

Sudah lame tak blogging. Reason being i've forgotten my password boley??
But it's ok it just me and nobody else will view my blog.
I've been to PWTC for home deco fair sumthing. We went there saturday and sunday.
Saturday.
pegi sane dgn hub, survey and asked for the price. Caught our eyes panasonic a/c, water heater, water filter.
Ok yang lain lian pun suka tapiii kene ingat budget budget budget. Ikutkan hati nak jer ambik kitchen cabinet, pagar electric all the security system, built in wardrobe hmmm andd lightings they got one booth alfo nama die, seriously i dah berkenan. They offer us with a package RM1000, RM3000, RM5000 the highest RM50,000!!! (ni mmg tiap2 langkah masuk rumah nnti ade chandelier hahah) It soo tempting and i was this close to sign the RM3000 package. Buttt ingat balik experience me and hub previously package bali (Matta fair) kitorang dah RM2000++ paid boley selamba jer cancel anddd tak dapat balik pun the money!! and to be safe better just be free and easy ok. Lesson learned at least for us :)
Balik rumah terus amik haifaa at mak jah's hse. Then shoot trus to BJ.
At night me and hubby discuss on the budget and focus on the important things and saya catit segala minute meeting:
Water filter - GE water filters
A/C - Panasonic
Fan - 4 fans opt for Panasonic and Rubine
Water Heater - Teka

Sunday:
Early in the morning out to our hse.
Went to sales office and asked for the progress and the good news : we will insyallah get our hse keys by mid or end of April :)
Then we went to see the hse, sungguh happy tgk rumah haha and amik gamba semua cus we need the measurement for certain area for wuteva reason in the future ie; maybe for the curtains, idea for any landscape design, shoe rack?? god knows idea mencurah2 especially when lepak at IKEA or hardware shops or Harvey Norman (owh yang ni not to mention hub@Kay sangat berangan to get a lazy chair!! we just not intend to buy yet sbb nnti nak pindah randah sgt ler susah and pluss insyallah dah setel semua boleyler try to get one, me in other hand just droool over all laura ashley design and concept which i like kinda not too modern but warm and cozy look, plush cushions and pillows with a nice sofa and ottoman) ok ni dah mood berangan sangat sangat!!
ok later we went to the contractor and we designed the wall partition cuz mind u our future house got split level between the living and dining hall. So it's a must to put something like permenent thinggy to avoid and accident especially when think of my lil' hangel yang main redah jerr nnti lari semua haha. So we've agreed with juts put the pillars at there. Tgkler dah abis smua nnti i take the picture and put it here. Balik dah sangat penat ok, luckily lil hangel tak ikut and she safely stay at home with in laws siap dah lunch semua :)
Then we take a nap. Only at 6 we left shah alam and went to PWTC again with lil hangel. OMG sangat ramai ppl.
We juts rembat semua barang2 yang dah list and got a lot of free gift!!! sukee ok barang2 free ni!! lunch termos set, panasonic towel, panasonic backpack and 3 electric kettles!!! jimat duit after this sesape kawin sure akan bagi kettle tu!!
Just nak kongsi, water filter ni at 1st im not interested to invest my money lagi ok butt bile teringat kotornya air kat rumah my in laws especially bile bacfree dtg buat water treatment semua i kinda terkejut sangat kotor yang sampai tahap dah kaler hitam biar betikk!! and seriously buat ape cari duit banyak2 kalau kesihatan tak jaga kan kan, im not promoting anything here. Banayk kat pasaran boley pilih nak mane satu. After a research kitorang agreed amik GE. Bacfree?? mahal sgt RM3k++ the cheapest package huhu and GE i will say its a trusted brand and seriously veryu good also :)
Up-to-now budget ada lagi sikit, next week plan to finalize the plaster ceiling design and lightings for the whole house. Its very important for me to get the right design and lampu2 semua. sorry to say some of the house yang dah renovate ade yang mcm over-do i mean beli lampu mahal2 but turn out the result sgt tak berbaloi. For me i will try my best seek for the consultant advice than syok sendiri. I would like to share here for energy saving bulb its better we take the bulb not to yellow not to white the code if im not mistaken 840 (boley confirm dgn kedai nnti) and for decorative light pun im not sure the right design that gonna match with my taste.
I really like with all the experience me and hub went through and a lott more to come. Will definitely update in here ;)

Thursday, February 4, 2010

father and daughter

I always adore kay and hangel together. They are soo adorable! Just like Cam gigandet and his dotter (credit to http://www.pinkisthenewblog.com/page/5/)
are they are cute?? make my heart melt awwww

Monday, February 1, 2010

2nd wife?

Selalu dengar 2nd wife through drama tv and kawan2 ofis yang gatal2 sembang kosong nak kawin dua (but i know diorg main2 je dpn wife takutt). Its not me touchwood*. But my dearly friend of mine. Im not that close but being the only lady of leisure hehe in my department i make quite a lot of female friends with other department too. Meetings and trainings attended at HQ and some were quite distance to travel (who cares boley claim) yeah i often took the oppurtunity to say 'hi' and update with all the news @ gossips in the company.
Last week was one of my happy day. I went to HQ and collect my RM1000 shopping voucher weeehooo. Then i plan for my lunch with my freind 'J'.
She was glow and put on weight a bit. She was pregnant!. I dont even know when she married? gosh am i bad friend? but i cant remember get any wedding invitation from her too.. then being a responsible friend (ceyy yeah im that concern with my close ones, rugi those tak kenal i ok ;) i aksed her. Me : J u nampak glow and hmm
J : Yeah J pregnant
Me : serius? biler kawin (ok ni mmg lajujer kuar tak fikir2 sensitif ke tak soklan huish)
J : Last year
Me : OMG erin tak tahupun
J : a ah tak kecoh2 pun

This morning borak2 ngan kwn ofis baru tahu she's 2nd wife and her husband keje dlm company sama. I just cant believe it. I mean when and how its all started? But dah mmg jodoh, she's a nice girl mmg baik and tak byk cakap not the kecoh type of gal. Happy for her and her husband tak penah ade anak with the 1st. Am happy for both of them. Its not that typical scene perempuan sexy2 and husband dah ade anak ramai dkt rumah but still gatal dgn perempuan lain owh slut ok (amarah yerr)

Ikut pada pemahaman saya being a 2nd wife :
1. Byk bersabar
2. 1st wife confirm anti sampai god-knows-when
3. Pretend to be happy eventho husband tak selalu ade how to plan for holiday? Raya mcmane?1 week nak balik rumah soo impossible
4. Susah nak ada facebook sbb nnti ade kwn2 ofis nak add

Last but not least doakan semoga J bahagia hingga ke akhir hayat..amin

Sunday, January 31, 2010

harem pants

Br lepas mandi. Mind u its already 4:07pm and br mandi pagi?? haa after smua itu terjadi K pengsan,butter prawn tak jadi and anak makan johnson's baby oil........i start blogging sambil K and hangel sleep. then i have time to take my own-me-time mandi...nikmat.
Byk benda fikir masa mandi. ish hati ni asik nak cakap jer and otak asik nak fikir jer. Btw i seriously need to buy a sewing machine. I just need it! dulu2 blaja engineering and sampai pecah kepala buat final year project. Then keje engineer ish n now nak jahit bajuuuuu
Emak gelak bile call and tell her i nak blaja menjahit. ish tak mengencourage langsung. Emak saya buat keje slow motion lain dgn mak mentua. Comparison Emak (my mother) and Mak mentua.

Emak MIL
Slow motion - buat keje satu2 and jalan comey sebab kaki pendek hehe nasib mak tak baca blog nie hehe Ligat - buat keje lajuu makan mcm tak kunyah terus telan gulp gulp and cakap pun bersungguh2 nasib baik juga Mother-In-Law tak baca blog!
Penyabar - tahap sabar paling agung dlm dunia saya bagi award! Tak penah dgr membebel dkt anak and marah boleh kira dgn jari sepanjang umur saya 28thn nie! Anak dia in other hand baru setahun jagung ehh perasan mudaa tak ingat bile membebel! Penyabar tapi membebel - haa mil sabar boleh thn tapi tak boleh lawan emak (pilih kasih disitu hehe but betulll) tapi membebel@nasihat non stop. Saya boleh bagi award penasihat terbaik! Nak hire consultant boleh tak payah bayar consultation charge sbb dia sanggup kasi foc punye ;)
Masak byk masakan pedas - sbb ayah saya hantu makan pedas Masak tak pedas - sup sgt terrer masak
Hidup relax - taknak risiko byk2 plan retire nak duduk rumah relax Hidup taknak relax - dah retire mengajar tuition
X suka travel - tapi sampai jugak paris, london, china, bangkok, Mekah alhamdulillah, Indon ish konpius disitu Suka travel sangattt suka ok sampai every year sampai 2@3 buah negara dilawati
x pantang - Saya boleh buat apa saja diruma saya meaning mmg takde pantang larang punyeee pantang = banyak pantang larang. Kalau jaga anak kene mcm nie and kalau nak hidup x stress kene organize yerr


But takpe saya kan suka art tibe tibe lukisan satupun takde kat rumah huhu* Benda pertama nak jahit adalah harem pants drool* drool *

From wikipedia:
Harem pants (also known as Hammer pants) are baggy pants tapered at the ankle, with side flaps on the hip that button at the waist area. The popularity of harem pants increased in the late 1980s with MC Hammer.[1]

Harem pants, which originated in India, are like a cross between a skirt and a pair of skinny jeans. The legs, from the knees down, are fitted. The crotch area is loose and baggy as if it were cut to be a skirt.[2] Traditional harem pants can be extremely large and baggy, with a very wide and full fit, very roomy, loose fitting, oversized, puffy, spacious, with elastic in waist and at ankles, and with the crotch below the knee almost to the ground.


But seriously i have no idea Harem pants inspire by MC Hammer?? ish tak best but anyhoo i do think its look like aladdin! :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OKc9NaOsRX0&feature=fvw

tengoklah bile dah beli machine jahit nnti good luck for me then

Saturday, January 30, 2010

GoodByeJan10

Blogging from PIL's hse. Started my day quite late. I woke up at 10am not good* not good* . Hubby and me plan to cook chinese style for today. So we left lil hangel with opah and tok and straight to Tesco. Bought Siakap and Pak Choy and prawns!
Balik rumah hangel dah start menangis mind u she's attention seeker hehe. Siapkan susu and naik atas plan nak tidokan dia. N it took more than 30min and she's not even sleep! K (the hubby) naik and ask me:
K : B, how to cook the butter prawn
Me : i dont know how to tell u, cuz this is my first time nak try
K : ok then u kene masak now cuz siakap stim dah siap
Me : Ok i turun now

then i try with 1 egg yolk and whisk with susu caik.

K : u buang masaler gune 1 telur jeer
Me : I nak try dulu takut tak jadi plak
Walla jadi ok sgt CUN huhu

ok now i dah confidence enuff and try with 6 telur and whisk with susu cair. hangel dah start nangis and tibe2..................

K : B, hangel makan johnson's oil
Me : Ya allah

tiba2 opah dtg and dukung and kasi water and try mandikan.......sambil hangel nangis non stop
im a bit stressed out......
but tangan still sibuk kacau the telur nak kasi die bersarang sarang............after 10min

K : asal tak bersarang?
Me : huh i have no idea, i just cant think of any. Dont ask me

terus hidangkan the butter prawn and naik atas
K tgh marah2 hangel. Both of us ignoring each other. I try amik hangel and ask K to turun and eat lunch. I just nak kemaskan barang everything and tidokan hangel. Tiba2 K jatuhhh........... i terkejut and jerit panggil maksu!
a few minutes later K sedar and i ask him to baring. he refuse and wanna turun makan and he warned me not to tell anyone. I turun and suapkan hangel lunch and when he left i told mama everything. Usually after luch or dinner kitorg akan lepak2 dkt ruang tamu and discuss about everything. But today we discuss totally about the incident K jatuh pengsan. Banyak benda yang i fikir skrg:

1. Our life (K and me) adalah sgt hectic.
K
Bgn Pagi hantar hangel to BBCter hse (on his way to work)
His nature of work - travel morn till noon
Finish work at 615pm everyday
8pm - 10pm he got tuition - part time as a tuition teacher :)
Reach home usually at 11pm
Me
Early morning siapkan barang anak
work
530pm finish work and fetch hangel from BBCter hse.
930pm sleep with hangle

2. Weekend
Friday
I will usually cook dinner on Friday :)
Do the laundry
kemas rumah
Saturday
Prepare breakfast and pack our stuff
stay over PIL's hse till sunday
Sunday
Back home and cook dinner

I dont know about other ppl. But sumtimes i do feel my life a bit stresfull. Thats the reason i wanna write a blog. Its my journey to be happy and organize. As a wife, mother and employee i dont wanna waste my time with all the unnecessary stress on a daily basis. Define unnecessary stress my dictionary*
1. Campak car and hse keys dlm handbag. Abis shopping terkial-kial cari dlm bag!
2. Bangun pagi baru nak cari brg2 anak nak antar ke bbcter
3. Terkejar sana sini when week-end. We had enuff of stress on weekdays! i just figire out the reason K and me feel this way is because we are not happy with our small hse. We need a space. We need a bigger hse.

What should i do to be un-stress-ful person :
1. Organize thing properly. I need to buy a small purse for my car and hse keys ( i think i should buy a cK small purse stand for car key ahh am i genius, god bless me)
2. I need to wake up a lil bit early than usual. I have to force myself wake up at 630am everyday! patutler teruknye slalu almost 7am br bgn! there u go my subuh dinosour not good* not good*
3. I have to force my family to enjoy our family time in our own crib! i should buy a bigger hse and furnish with all nice and of cuz affordable within our budget! i mean I and K!!! not me myself
4. Taknak gaduh anymore with my other half! I love him.
5. I wanna be grateful for what i have and i wanna have a hobby!

Hobby ?
nak mesin jahit and nak jahit macam2 :
my own pyjama
my hubby - boxer no?
my hangel skirt
langsir bilik maid - sbb takut jadi buruk kene letak bilik maid hehe
*maid takde lagi haa ni lagi satu stress benda takde dah berangan macam ade! huish*

thats the reason i wanna have my online journal. Its my diary! and my determintaion to be a better person insyallah.


* sorry to those yang terasa, i have no intention but 100% its all about me and my life*
* cheers to better me*